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Why Can’t Men Leave Lesbians Alone?
Hello, it’s me, your unfriendly, neighbourhood lesbian. I’d like to start by saying that when I refer to men in this blog post, I am not talking about non binary people. Maybe we won’t be compatible (but maybe we will…), but I have no issue seeing them around because we share experiences and understand each…
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Why It’s Time For White LGBT People To Stop Expecting Black Trans Women To Throw Bricks For Them
Every single year, the Pride discourse begins. What is acceptable to wear at Pride? What is acceptable to do at Pride? Who is acceptable at Pride? (As a bisexual, my invitation is fair weather, so, as always, my solidarity is with the Ace community who have it even worse than us) And of course, the…
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Free and Fearless
As it all turns out,to be in love,or to be yourself,IS brave and stunning,no matter how much mumsnet mocks you for it.You love and you live in a free and fearless state,knowing that time is an ever changing thing,and that you could go back and forth,be acceptable or unacceptable on the whims of the rest…
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Here’s To The Kids Who Wear Purple
You taught me to love, showing me how to put familiar fondness in the single fondant fancy I would find, hiding in my lunch box, alongside salad sandwiches, that tasted of “Have a good day.” “Come home safe.” “You are the thing I have loved most, in this wild, wide world.” I watched you wash…
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Girls Like Us
New York knows you. Small stem, to tepid titan, coaxing the clouds, from the sky, and the stars to the sidewalk. They gather, gasping at your glow, as you break free, and breathe, for the first time, on your own terms. Small smile, small girl, big dreams, at the ball, on the roof, gazing at…